The unnamed narrator retreats to
a coffee house every day to escape from the unsettling atmosphere of crisis at
home. In the Coffee House, the serving waiter Vincent seems to the narrator, a
wise being who knows secrets of his internal chaos and can put them into a
calming virtue of words. The novel opens in one such day, when the narrator
finds himself in the coffee house again, only this time he hasn't returned to
his home for more than thirty hours, where his wife is expected to return but
hasn't. He broods over his failed relationship with a girl at the coffee with
whom he had suddenly cut off his ties, but more than that he's there to tell
all about his family.
In the following chapters he
takes us into the roots of his family, its members and their characters. His
family consists of his parents, Chikkappa (Uncle), Malati (Sister) and Anita
(Wife). They now own a business, and are well enough, such that the narrator
doesn't have to work at all if he wishes to, only that because of his wife he
completes the formality of going to work, where he does almost nothing. Chikkappa
runs the business, suffers the toil and brings the wealth home to everyone's
delight. They weren't always like this; they once had been a family with meager
income, and lived in a poor lower-middle-class quarter in an ant1
infested house, and they'd moved to the present luxury only after new wealth
entered their family.
1. We
had two types of ants at home. One was a small brisk-moving black variety that
appeared only occasionally. But when it did, it came in an army numbering
thousands. These ants wandered everywhere in apparent confusion, always bumping
heads and pausing before realizing something and rushing off in random
directions. They had no discernible purpose in life other than trying our
patience. It didn’t seem like they were here to find food. Nor did they have
the patience to bite anyone. Left to themselves, they’d quickly haul in
particles of mud and built nests here and there in the house. You could try
scuttling them with a broom, but they’d get into a mad frenzy and climb up the
broom and on to your arm. Before you knew it, they’d be all over you, even
under your clothes. For days on end there would be a terrific invasion, and
then one day you’d wake up to find them gone. There was no telling why they
came, where they went. I sometimes saw them racing in lines along the window
sill in the front room, where there was nothing to eat. Perhaps they were on a
mission of some sort, only passing through our house in self-important columns.
But not once did I see the tail of a column, an ant that had no other ants
behind it.
After the marriage, Anita senses
the fault in the family ties and foundation, and therefore there is always a
constant tension between the three women of the house. Now, the nouveau riche
family is concerned about the comfort of Chikkappa, as he is the sole
breadwinner of the family. The narrator himself fears losing his inheritance
from his father, and doesn't want to get apart from the riches2 and
prosperity his uncle has brought in the house, without him doing almost nothing.
A dissent to the family virtues and well-being, Anita uses subtle verbal
insults, undermines, pokes, challenges their way of life or make fun of whomever
she wants and things which she doesn't find agreeable, and as if to rescue the
family the narrator's mother and sister too join the verbal row; this is what
the narrator escapes from often.
2. It’s
true what they say – it’s not we who control money, it’s the money that
controls us. When there’s only a little, it behaves meekly; when it grows, it
becomes brash and has its way with us.
The narrator candidly talks about
his thoughts, intentions, dark motives and personal failures, as if he accepts
it all, but is still at loss. It seems the family has accepted the way things
are and doesn't want to change in any way. Meanwhile, Anita resents the family
ways and how things are: an uncle who works day and night to maintain the
family business; a mother who is limited to the kitchen and can become ruthless
if it comes to saving the family values; a father who has less and less say
about anything in the family and whose jokes aren't appreciated by anyone; a
sister who has left her husband, come to live with her parents and has her own
private world, and a husband who is freeloading to the family fortune and
virtually does nothing. Ghachar Gochar, a word created by Anita and her brother
during their childhood, which means entanglement of things, has become a
reality to the narrator, who finds himself in the middle of a war of words ever
present in the household between the three women, family values, fear of losing3
the riches and expectation from his wife for him to be independent. It seems
that not only their freedom, but their fate and shame too are rooted in the
family ties. As if the family has learned to live in harmony amid the
dependence, tension and chaos.
3. A
man in our society is supposed to fulfil his wife’s financial needs, true, but
who knew he was expected to earn the money through his own toil?
In
Ghachar Ghochar, we witness
the family and personal secrets being laid bare. We also closely observe the
changes in their way of life, of a family as they leap onto the higher social
status with a bond and understanding – that is reluctant to change – to such an
extent that the whole members are in a sort of symbiosis or have become
parasitic. In doing so, their own personal choices have been defined or are
limited by those unspoken virtues. The story is a dramatic view of a nouveau
riche family, but is not limited to this. It also unveils the dark motives that
run in a family. Here, it is a fear of losing the prosperity – which also has
deformed the personalities of few. To some extent, we can extrapolate the story
to those women who stand against violence and traditional ways, and are under
threat from their own families and sinister ways. Ghachar Gochar takes us into
the core of a family and its crisis that we often know about but we do not
speak of.
Author: Vivek Shanbhag
Translator: Srinath Perur
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